Many years ago we laughed at a line from a movie that said that Mormons could be Buddhist too. Over the years I've come to see that there is a lot of wisdom in Buddhism that I could benefit from.
The first day Jenna and I went snorkeling we got in the water, went to the right, and almost immediately saw a turtle! What were the odds?!? (I mean they weren't terrible because of where we were, but it was still a surprise.) After we snorkeled for a while we got out, had a snack, and warmed back up. Then when we got in again and went to the left, we saw even more turtles! So awesome.
The next morning we got up and went to a different snorkel spot. (Dumps, henceforth to be referred to as Konahena to pay tribute to it's beauty!) I knew that we would see a lot more fish there since it was part of the marine preserve, but I also knew that if we were set on seeing turtles, all of the fish in the world wouldn't be satisfying. So I told Jenna before we started that we needed to be a little Zen about our snorkeling, and appreciate whatever we saw each time rather than deciding that we weren't going to enjoy it unless we saw something specific. (Meaning turtles, of course.) She agreed with me that it would be smart to think about it like that.
Happily, we saw turtles most of the times we were snorkeling. But we were also able to enjoy the other things because we had decided that we were going to be happy with whatever happened.
Whatever we saw was going to be amazing, which I think is a pretty good way to live.